Maybe you’re not so great with first impressions, or maybe you just want to sharpen up your skills. We know all the basics. You laugh, you make eye contact, you touch his arm. I’m yawning already. Are you? Well you’ve come to the right place! I’ll help you out without the basics! I’ve got some ways to help you flirt better, even though I’m pretty sure you don’t need any help with that million-watt smile of yours! Either way, check out some of my tips below and let me know what you think in the comments.
Be Yourself- According to science, flirting is something you already know how to do. That arm touch and all that eye contact—well, you already have that down. It’s evolution! All you have to do is be yourself and the rest will come naturally.
Try To Make A Connection- Let go of trying to make an impression. Honestly, first impressions are more based on physical appearance, body language, and the sound of your voice. What you actually say makes up about 7% of someone’s first impression of you. So try to let go of that ego and focus on making an actual connection so that 7% counts. Besides, the goal of flirting isn’t to impress, it’s to show that you have an interest in that other person. So try your best to make that interest be known.
The Golden Rule- Treat the person you’re flirting with like a human being. Again, seek to make a connection! People can tell when you’re trying to treat them like a conquest or a challenge. Go into flirting with the idea that you’re going in to meet another person. Now get out there! You got this, girl!